I'm mostly pointing the finger at Drumeo on this...I see it on my Facebook feed all the time "only 1out of 10 drummers can play this 11/8 groove!" and "you've been playing this groove all wrong!" this is partial hyperbole, but It's as if they're saying "if you can't do this, you aren't a real drummer". I'm what you'd call a meat & potatoes drummer. Can't solo to save my ass, but when the song starts I'm right there, and I get few complaints from my fellow musicians. I guess it's the old fart in me, I've always studied what guys like Hal Blaine, Benny Benjamin, Jeff Porcaro, & Jim Gordon were doing. But I just feel like some of these "Drum shaming" videos are discouraging & frustrating players.