I'll watch a Drumeo video on occasion, particularly when it's a younger player or a female drummer - I enjoy watching them play and I like seeing them receive the exposure that may not normally get.
What bothers me, though, is that, too often, they emphasize or prioritize "chops" over "groove", not in the sense that they're suggesting that the groove is not important, but more so the ratio between the two. Whereas it used to be "groove for 8 or 16 bars and then add a fill", now it's "groove for 1 bar and add a fill for the next bar" - it's really become a case of "too many notes".
When I'm taking lessons and learning a new song, my teacher insists that I play the groove throughout the entire song without any fills whatsoever, not even a crash, an extra ghost stroke or one tom hit (unless, of course, it's part of the groove). Then, and only then, do we add in the extras. It's tedious, sure, but there's a big, big, difference between being able to hold a groove for one bar as opposed to holding it for the whole song - it takes a lot of control to do that, and I think a lot of new drummers, especially self-taught ones, miss the importance of being able to do that.
It's kind of like starting to put the frame on a house without letting the foundation dry first.
So, no, I don't feel "shamed" by this at all; rather, I feel like they are doing a bit of a disservice to drummers.
But holding a groove is easy, boring, and wouldn't garner many hits, right?