I’m all for learning to read, and I use my reading skills all the time, but our art form is aural. Having good ears is the most important asset a musician can have.
Obviously there many out standing musicians that can’t read at all. Stevie Wonder, Ray Charles, Dave Bruebeck, Eric Clapton, Paul McCartney, Ringo, Jimmy Hendrix, Buddy Rich are just a few I can think of off the top of my head, that couldn’t read music.
With that being said, I don’t think a beginner has to learn note reading from day one (although I certainly did) My daughter started violin at age four and her teacher didn’t introduce note reading until she could play pretty well. She‘s 20 now and is already playing in professional orchestras, but her ear is much better than many more seasoned string players, which allows her to work gigs that have little to know notation, like country, pop, mariachi and prairie and worship bands.
So my short answer is to learn to read, but also strive to develop your ears to a high level.