I’d get some form of evaluation though. You don’t want to be that guy that everybody thinks can’t play.
Idk, if you cant perform, you just cant. If you're old, maybe that's a barrier too?
I got that label last year. I did. Prob still have it, but there's more to the story, and even disputed labels 1 year later. I got it because I got tapped to be a paid host Jam drummer with some area top players when I hadn't gotten back to speed after a 15 year layoff. Not your typical band thing where the band decides who gets the gig. The owner of the jam decided who drums and that = friction with the other players for me and him.
It was November last year and admittedly it was weak because I intended to play bass, not drums. I only drummed around jams prior because I used to drum but couldn't just play bass on any called song at a jam. November last year I decided to be serious on drums.
This area is RICH in talent. Out of area players say it constantly.
Not even a year into my return a top tier mutually acknowledged guitarist said I'm his favorite drummer outside of his longtime drummer bandmate. I said there's better drummers he plays with, so, wtf?! He was honest and said it's not about being best. It's about being solid and being who he meshes with and we read each other.
I took the time to get interested in what he does, in what everybody does and what works across the board. A 2nd top tier guitarist heard me talk about a potential project and said he was interested if we did something.
Just as quoted above, I probably still have that 'poor player' label from some official jam guys, even 100 paid shows in a year later. 100 more next year if I still only work with the 1 current band.
Some fellow musicians are quite jealous about 1 or the other above scenarios, lol. I'm not really even being competitive. There's even been a little conspiring that I've witnessed. I'll just keep doing my thing. There's more, but this is too much info to take in now.