It seems like hitting very hard is the norm nowadays,outside of Jazz perhaps.I recently filled in with a Country/Oldies band,and I was told ahead of time that they had no patience with loud drummers.I wanted to make a good impression, so I was determined to play with a very soft touch.At first it felt odd,like I was barely touching the drums,but by midway through the night,I adjusted to it.I found that I actually enjoyed playing lightly.The music went over just as well, I found that I had more finesse at that low volume,and the band was happy! So,I was wondering will that work in general? Drums will always be heard,especially if they are miked.Is there any detriment to playing lightly?I hope to hear some other thoughts on this.