MikeM
Platinum Member
I totally know that feeling. I'm not crazy about it because it makes me feel awkward, like, should I wait for them to come over and deliver the obligatory compliment or acknowledgement or whatever, or should I go over to the stranger and make myself that much more available for it. And what if they didn't dig what we did too much? Yikes.
Just weird. I usually like to get my drums off stage and packed up or otherwise dealt with first thing, then outside for a breather. That way I can bypass most of the socializing with strangers. They're welcome to follow me if they're so inclined and I don't mind that. Then I like to head in to check out the next band when it's so loud that the interactions can only be smiles.
I don't think I would test into that extrovert category but who knows; it feels like the act of playing for people is extroverted enough. Beyond that, it's a little uncomfortable.
I usually like to check out the other drummer's kits at shows and strike up conversation with them if they have interesting setups and seem receptive (surprisingly many aren't). But it is fun to meet other drummers and talk shop and see what kind of gear and drummers they like. Nights where there's some good drummer bonding going on are some of my favorites.
Just weird. I usually like to get my drums off stage and packed up or otherwise dealt with first thing, then outside for a breather. That way I can bypass most of the socializing with strangers. They're welcome to follow me if they're so inclined and I don't mind that. Then I like to head in to check out the next band when it's so loud that the interactions can only be smiles.
I don't think I would test into that extrovert category but who knows; it feels like the act of playing for people is extroverted enough. Beyond that, it's a little uncomfortable.
I usually like to check out the other drummer's kits at shows and strike up conversation with them if they have interesting setups and seem receptive (surprisingly many aren't). But it is fun to meet other drummers and talk shop and see what kind of gear and drummers they like. Nights where there's some good drummer bonding going on are some of my favorites.