I was super lucky...
my dad was a drummer around town, and was my first teacher at. age 3-4.
Moms whole family were professional musicians - 7 brothers and a sister, including my mom - so I had all kinds of support/pressure there. On that side everyone could play piano...well. There was a french horn player; mom played sax and sang; my aunt sang; one uncle was a bass player (he also inspired me to pick up bass in 7th grade); the other brother played piano, and ended up playing on tour with Jesus Christ, Superstar in the 70's; oldest uncle plays accordion, harmonica, and has a collection of a bunch of weird "found" instruments
my house was where our rock band in HS practiced, and it was the hub of all of our lives; we had a regular living room, and then a parlor, and the parlor became the practice space. Dad, soundproofed the room, installed air conditioners in the window (this was pre central air....mid 80's) and even reinforced the floor in the basement under where the drum set was. Our house was always known as "the place where the door is always open". My parents loved it, and as some have mentioned, I think they also loved it b/c they always knew where we were, and that we were not getting in trouble.
On fall weekends, we would do marching band on Friday nights, come over to my house and sleep in the attic, which was fixed up and my room. Wake up around 10 or 11 and practice for 8-10hours on Saturday...friends in and out of the house all day watching. We ALWAYS ended up at White Castles after practice, and then it was back to the house for darts, pool, listening to music, watching movies on laser disc...on other Fridays, we would usually try. to sneak into shows at bars, or go to house party shows to see other friends bands play
That was our life for the 4 years of HS....irreplaceable memories. All 4 of us in that band still live close, and still are the best of friends.
none of that could have happened with out my mom and dad