I never understood how some of my musician friends never applied what they did for their jobs or society to their music handlings. I mean, if you have a job and it starts at 9AM, why is it any different if you get a gig that starts at 9PM that its ok to be a little late? Drummers can't complain about carrying so much stuff, either. We as drummers have decided to use what we use so it's basically our problem getting it to the gig and being ready on time. Just that act alone would lift you to the 'not flaky' status. Everything else we can work on in later lessons