My first kit was a Gretsch round badge. Don't be too jealous. It was knackered. The floor tom was out of round, the edges were chopped up, and it was in really bad nick. Crappy brass cymbals. Still, it made good punk music. A fat kid sitting on the bass drum killed it.
In between then and now I had a series of cheap "stencil" kits. I learned a LOT in the process of turning over those kits. I'd true the edges. I'd remove the wrap - if the wood was reasonably nice-looking, it'd get stain and some kind of clear-coat, and if it wasn't it'd get painted. I'd put new heads on at least the batters. Then I'd play it a while. When I found another cheap stencil kit I'd buy it, repeat the process, and sell the old kit to recoup expenses.
The first kit I bought brand new was a Premier Cabria XPK. That was a really nice kit. I never played the 12" rack tom. I always set it up 13-16-22. It was the first kit I had with a 18x22 kick, and while I liked the sound I was not happy about schlepping it around.
A few years ago I bought a NOS Mapex Meridian Maple. Wonderful kit. Nice, thin shells, superb build quality. Still have it, though I'm trying to unload it because I never play it.
I'm too busy playing my Ludwig Signets.
Again, wonderful kit. Thin maple shells free from choking hardware. Light, which is important for gigs. Nice-looking.
All through that time, snares out the wazoo. Lost track years ago.
I had Paiste Signatures back in the 90s. I've a mix of Istanbul Agop and UFIP now, with a couple cottage-maker craft cymbals in the pile.
If I had to do it all over again?
Dear Andy, please to be making me a Tour series, 8-10-12-14f-16f-22. That's the home and special-occasion kit.
Gigging kit can be any number of upper-intermediate kits with a wrapped finish. Doesn't matter at all to me except that it's not Pearl. I hate those #$@%! tom arms.
Cymbals shall be UFIP, a mix of Natural and Class series.
I don't need racks full of snares. Over the years I've found a library of three snares is enough choice for me: 6.5x14 BoB (my go-to), a 8 or 7x13 maple, and a 5 or 5.5x14 maple. That's all I need. I'd
like to have more, but it'd be a waste of money and storage space.
Hardware is immaterial to me provided it keeps the instruments where I put them. Oh, and the kick pedal has to have a direct drive. Since I made the switch, I find there's too much 'slop' in chains and straps.