Odd-Arne Oseberg
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Tough love ^. I like it!
Sometimes though love is just ignorance.
Tough love ^. I like it!
Yeah, there’s something about creating and being in the middle of beats and rhythms-feeling them, too- that does seem to relieve the mild to moderate depression I have. Good luck with it, friend!Been playing for about 20 years now and have played with my share of great and terrible musicians. I was forced to move out of my family home, country and regular gigging circuit due to a brother that has insecurities and basically ruined my musical reputation by telling people I was an inadequate musician and a liability. Now I’ve moved home and found the exact same thing going on.
I thought I left my last band on good terms but now I find they are spreading untrue rumours about me being unfit to play and dangerous, despite the instigator of this being an extreme secret alcoholic and a father to 2 kids he doesn’t have any interest in.
Basically this isn’t helping with my severe depression, I tried drumming as a comfort and expressive tool (I need to create constantly) but feel the world doesn’t want me to do this for some reason?
Anyone out there feel the same way?
I think it's more than relieving stress. Drumming is exercise. And it's great for the hands!Anyone else out there find drumming helps them beat the blues?
This is true. However, some people suffering from depression don’t have the tools necessary to focus on goals and move forward. Depression essentially causes a person to stop. Stop doing. Stop living. If it was as simple as you describe, then no one would be depressed. I used to believe that my issues were because I was lazy or lacking in internal strength. I was surprised to learn that real chemical changes in the brain caused by depression can be beyond “self help”. And if it is allowed to go for long periods of time, coming out of depression becomes monumental. Speaking from real life experience.This may sound quaint/harsh but, we are all responsible for our own mental health and state of mind. What other people say or feel about you is inconsequential. Understand your good qualities and focus on your goals. Keep moving toward them.
Yes, I find it can help "beat the Blues" - in fact I will play some Blues to play along with! But If I'm feeling a little more than just a little Blues. I will find myself saying...."I'll skip playing drums today! I'll qualify by saying that I play at Home in retirement as a Hobby / Pleasure thing.Anyone else out there find drumming helps them beat the blues?
An excellent Post !! I'm 72, been dealing with anxiety since I can remember. Over the years, the anxiety evolved into full Blown Panic Attacks by 1987 (soon after the birth of my second child). The Demon of Anxiety has a second side to it - Depression. It's a Dual Edged Sword. A mightly sharp one at that! After the first Wave of Anxiety attacks, I sought Psyche help. The first few sessions I just sat there in silence for the 45 minutes! Then the ice was broken a bit. Some "stuff' emitted with the psychologist's sessions. But still remain to an extent. Then in the 90s under different circumstances (new job and the stresses it dished out), the demon re-appeared. It comes out of the Blue! The Mind is an Incredible aspect to Humans. I ws fortunate to meet a new Doctor - I think form a small ad in the Newspaper - at Cornell Medical Center in Westchester County, NY. He looked like a big Bear ( a plump, bearded, and very casually sitting man in a lounge chair). After he informed me that attending Group Sessions could be helpful for some, it is Not For You, after telling him what I experience. He was a Psycho-Pharmacologist with high caliber qualifications in the Industry. He announced immediately, your problems stem from Chemical Imbalances in your Brain! He started me on Prozac which was relatively new in 1994 (+/-). After a few weeks on 20MGs, he upped it to 40 MGs a day. Soon I started to feel no Panic Attacks anymore (at least not regularly). I started to Laugh Again! After about a year or so, He had me start to Wean off Prozac which you must do Slowly over weeks. Then in 1996, quite suddenly, I began to Workout at age 45! I never did before that. It transformed my Body. Yes, upon first starting warmups on a bike, I would feel Heart Palpitations - the first sign of a panic/Anxiety starting. But kept pushing Thru It!! I am fortunate to have a good wife who supported me as much as she could. But These demons must be handles by YOU! Shortly after starting the workouts, I also started my venture to discover herbal / healthful supplements. Some for relaxing the Mind, some for increasing strength and abilities. My health / Strength improvements were evident! I could see it in the Mirror.Depression, especially longer term depression, can cause chemical changes in the brain which can only be resolved with medication. It doesn’t have to be permanent. And most importantly, do things that give you pleasure. Doesn’t matter what it is. Every bit helps. There are people out there who both feel your pain, experience it or have in the past themselves and who want to help. Good luck with your journey. Keep us updated, on both your successes as well as any setbacks you experience. They will happen. But they don’t have to derail you from the goal of your own happiness. Just know that some of us are struggling with you and dealing with the same things. You are not alone.
Alex Rudinger plays as therapy for depression/anxiety, which he admitted. You do it for yourself.Been playing for about 20 years now and have played with my share of great and terrible musicians. I was forced to move out of my family home, country and regular gigging circuit due to a brother that has insecurities and basically ruined my musical reputation by telling people I was an inadequate musician and a liability. Now I’ve moved home and found the exact same thing going on.
I thought I left my last band on good terms but now I find they are spreading untrue rumours about me being unfit to play and dangerous, despite the instigator of this being an extreme secret alcoholic and a father to 2 kids he doesn’t have any interest in.
Basically this isn’t helping with my severe depression, I tried drumming as a comfort and expressive tool (I need to create constantly) but feel the world doesn’t want me to do this for some reason?
Anyone out there feel the same way?