For some reason, some of the more "enlightened" drummers on here are assuming that because I would like some quieter drums that means I can't, or don't like to play quietly. I love playing quietly when I am playing quiet acoustic music. One of my favorite grooves to play is a shaker in one hand and playing a tambouring on top of the snare with a brush in the other. What I'm talking about is trying to get stadium rock sound at coffee house volume.
At the particular venue I've been talking about one guy used an e-kit. The sound of his sticks hitting the pads was louder than the sounds coming out of his amp. He went back to playing an a-kit with rods.
Anyway, here is a pic of me bashing the hell out of my rock-n-roll drums at one of those gigs. Notice the massive PA I'm having to compete with.