I've been pursuing the same pipe dream forever...trying to replicate the sound from a record. It's impossible, especially with what you and I are working with. Like another post mentioned, there is so much post production there that you'll never replicate it.
You can probably replicate a live snare though. I've seen Angels and Airwaves, and his drums sound absolutely amazing (top 5 drumsets I've heard live).
My two cents: I find that the closest way to imitate a sound on an album is to tighten the snare quite a bit, since it gives that deafening crack that most rock drummers have on recordings. A deeper snare with some ports, maple, with a single ply head like a Remo Ambassador is my weapon of choice for that kind of stuff.
HOWEVER, it seems like whenever I see a band like that sound checking and the drum tech hits the snare (before it is mic'd and in the mix) it sounds like the drum has a very loose tension and is really low (and I think usually sounds bad). Go figure.