I think you're making more of this issue than is warranted. I've only heard one CD mastered WITHOUT decoding Dolby A. That tells me an untrained ear worked on it. Similarly, the top end boost and cut in the bass of the RIAA curve would also be detectable to a trained ear(if it were not marked on the tape box as "RIAA" or "EQ'd dub" or some such and hopefully rejected outright). I've never heard an RIAA-EQ'd tape. I'm sure it sounds gnarly.
I've spent a lot of time talking to mastering engineers about the early days of CDs and I've never heard them mention RIAA or even CCIR as any kind of pervasive issue, not as opposed to, say. fighting with Dolby A decoding or dbx or sticky tapes that have to be baked or finding the first generation tapes. If this issue really bothers you that much, I'll ring up the guy I know(he just mastered an album I played on), as he's forgotten more than we'll ever know about the subject--he was Polygram's go-to guy in the mid-80s.
To your point, no, I don't think of the industry, as primarily creative or anything but business, at least not since I was 14 or 15.
Dan