WAIT! WHAT?!?!
Michelle, Kathy’s daughter has been running the AR side of things for a few years now. Kathy moved down to Florida a long time ago, and I believe was heading up Direct Music Supply. The distribution company Calato MFG owns, but I’ve not heard anything about Carol. Last I spoke to her was about a year and a half ago, and Joe celebrated his 100th birthday earlier this year.
UPDATE:
I googled “Carol Calato” and the most recent thing was a news story in the Niagara Gazette about the student awarded the Carol Calato Scholarship, dated September 1, 2021, and there was a photo. I assume that means she’s still alive and well.
also, I saw a post on Drumforum from May 18, 2021 by a member who said he hung with Carol at his gig in Buffalo.