I use my cheapo Alesis DRP100:
Which are very neutral (not bass heavy which works perfect for drum monitoring because they don't color the sound).
They also provide pretty decent isolation and they are super cheap so if you don't like them you didn't spend a lot.
Also they are very comfortable. Yes I use them for electronic drums, but can use them to monitor acoustic drums just fine too. I had mine for about 10 years and they are still in perfect like new condition. Another thing, you have to be careful with the volume because they can go really loud and not distort at all, I have never had them full volume.
From an Amazon review:
Closed Headphone:
1st: JVC HARX700: Spacious, clear. Well rounded. Maybe a bit sharp and less warm. Very comfortable.
2nd: Alesis DRP100: Warmer than JVC HARX700, but less spacious. Excellent isolation. Comfortable.
3rd: Beyerdynamic DT 240 PRO: Very balanced and warm. Not comfortable due to on-ear design.
4th: Audio-Technica ATH-M20X: Thin sounding. Worst performer.
Open Headphone:
1st: Philips SHP9500: Best sound quality to me. Extremely comfortable, but little loose fitting.
2nd: Samson Technologies SR850: Very close runner up to the SHP9500. Very comfortable.
3rd: AKG Pro Audio K240: Higher impedance, so little harder to drive. Less open sounding. Definitely a step behind the above two.
That last part, you might need a headphone amp for some of those to actually take full advantage of the large drivers:
The advantage you get with that headphone amp is that if you record video with multiple cameras, you can send audio to 3 of them and have the 4th output to be your headphones and all of them can be independently volume controlled.