I started like most here, practicing some exercises but mainly playing along my CD player for hours. I started at 17, my brother is 2 years older and he plays some guitar and sings, so I played a lot in our basement with actual people, which helped a lot.
Just remember to have fun, and don't treat it like another task from a list. I understand it's different when you have commitments, but use drumming as an antidote to work & life issues and it will pay you back with extreme joy. Do some technical stuff if you want, but don't spread yourself too thin. Work on the basics, and rock on!
Also, you can easily record yourself on the phone. You don't have to show it to anyone, but it'll be extremely useful for you.
Just remember to have fun, and don't treat it like another task from a list. I understand it's different when you have commitments, but use drumming as an antidote to work & life issues and it will pay you back with extreme joy. Do some technical stuff if you want, but don't spread yourself too thin. Work on the basics, and rock on!
Also, you can easily record yourself on the phone. You don't have to show it to anyone, but it'll be extremely useful for you.