C-man,
Couple of things immediately jump out....swapping heads from one kit to another doesn't always work. The heads form themselves to the bearing edge of drum 'A' and therefore do not always seat themselves properly on the (probably different) bearing edge on drum 'B' making them hard (er) to tune up properly. New heads are an expense but unless you are pounding your drums for hours on end everyday they will last you, so it's probably worth getting all new ones.
The ringing that you hear is what carries the tone to the audience. Stand 'out front' whilst someone else plays your drums and they will sound totally different to what you hear sat behind them. Not important when you are just playing to yourself for fun as you are, so to answer your question - yes you would need muffling of some sort to take that ringing away (from the throne point of view) . Muffle them as you have been and don't worry about it, all that matters in your situation is getting a sound from the throne that you like and inspires you to play.
The dooo sound you seek is achieved by tuning the reso head higher than the batter.
KEEF, true words of Wisdom, man. I would also add in my perticular case, since I do not play Gigs (who knows maybe a Geriatric Band locally by me may form??
]. For what it is worth, I installed the 16 " Clear EC2 batter head on the PDP Floor tom and the 12" Rack Tom ( I had that heads as described in my earlier post), using the Evans E-Ring, and I'm There with that drum. I did order the Remo Emperor Clear batter heads for all the toms (nice deal at Sweetwater), installed the 14" batter head on that Floor Tom. I don't know the exact specs on the ply Thickness , the EC2s feel a little thicker than the Remos. Using the E-Rings on all 3 drums, out of the gate, I Think the ECs are more to my liking, But I will do some more tuning to each to determine better comparison. I returned to playing Drums after 50 Years (1969 when our garage band of HS buddies broke up and moved on.... I lived in an apartment with parents and had nowhere to keep my Set), in 2019. I had no idea about Drum heads, types, qualities, etc., and no real clue at all about "tuning" . The InterWeb is a marvelous thing as a learning tool!!. My initial comparison of the Clear Batter heads vs. the Evans G2 Coated is the coated heads do sound a bit "warmer" than the Clears, at least on this maple kit. The Clears offer a bit louder, thuddier sound. At the end of the day, I am trying to keep this as a Pleasure and not drive me too crazy. I am a person with an Obsessive Nature
. Suffering with Chronic pains and Stiffness from spinal arthritis doesn't help, but still being able to play Drums is a big satisfaction and although against my pain management doctor's advice, is a joy to me.
FTR, I play to My Music: Beatles, Blind Faith [can't touch Baker's Solos], Cars, CCR, Clapton, Sheryl Crow, CSN, Doobie Bros.,Eagles, Etheridge , Fleetwood mac, Grandfunk RR, Hollies, Kinks, Mellencamp, Mettalica, Bonnie Rait, Linda Ronstadt, Springsteen, Stones, Talking Heads, Ten Years After (and many Alvin Lee tunes , TYA were my favorite band way back when), Traffic, Van Morrison, The Who [ some parts - Keith Moon was aon another level], S. Winwood, and some more. Led Zep left out bc I Can't touch Bonham. YET
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