Hey guys and ladies, I took the drums back up around three years ago after not playing in over ten years to help out our band at my church. For the most part it has been a great experience but lately not so much. We recently went through a recording session and based on that experience the group finally agreed with me that our tempos are all over the place on songs. I brought up to the band at our next rehearsal that I would like to have us start rehearsing with a click which I am willing to pay for to help make us tighter as a group. Most of the group agreed that it was a good idea, save for our rhythm/acoustic guitar player who in the time since has become a real prick about little tempo issues. For instance, he starts a song out too slow and then wants to speed it up which I fight since the group agreed that we need to maintain tempos instead of being as erratic as we were on our studio tracks. He also stated that I need to un-learn the double bass hit on the three beat of our uptempo 4/4 tunes because it sounds like I am behind when paired up with his bass part on the studio work which was done after the drum track was in place. Usually I play it as a a quarter note on one and two eighths on the three beat. Is this wrong?
Any advice on how to deal with this guy? I really am starting to love playing again and don't want to start hating the drums because of another person.
Been there done that.
Yeah that's a tough situation however, if you're recording, it only need be YOU that hears the click track, and if you're dead on it's gotta be him with the time problems.
And live, don't slide the tempos up or down after you start the song, just change it around so YOU count them in. If it's his fault for always starting them differently then he should be absolved of counting them in OR he has to deal with it where it lies. There's not too much that looks more bush-league that when you have to speed up or slow down right at the beginning of the tune, Yechh!!
There's a gizmo that you can get that will give you a tempo that you set in before hand, it will give you say 100bpm and blink it with lights so you can count it in exactly at the agreed upon tempo. I'm sure SOMEONE here knows the gizmo I mean, HELP!!
Most problems in a band situation like this come from the added adrenalin that sometimes messes with your ability to count as compared to when you're calm. The electronics will tell you where it is and if it's OK at rehearsal and NOT OK on the gigs it's probably just the adrenalin rush that's messin' with you or him.
As far as the double bass figure, that's where musical taste comes in, it sounds like you two are in two hemispheres of two different worlds.
Remember that THIS band is not the beginning or end of the musical world, we've ALL been through TONS of bands to get to the one we WANT to be in, maybe THIS isn't the one for you is all.
Good luck and I hope this helps a bit.
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