No Way Jose
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Save that for when you want to get rid of her. Why take chances?
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Fixed it for you. ha ha haHave them set up right in the middle of yourliving roomdrum room. Have a custom kick drum head that says, "I change for no one." If she says, "Is that the name of your band?", just tell her "No."
If she can't handle it, she's not the one for you.
Keep it hidden until you have a gig that you think she might enjoy attending.Do you keep them hidden for while or show them off on the first date?
You definitely want to 'see her tuba' by the 3rd date.Your new girlfriend plays the tuba. She plays with a traveling orchestra. She practices at home for two hours every day. When would you want to see her tuba?
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Does this really happen? The only time I’ve ever heard of this was if kids were involved, which is kind of understandable that you wouldn’t have as much time for a hobby/freelance job with crappy hours and crappy pay anymore. I think if the situation were reversed and a mom tried to tell her husband she had to leave for hours multiple times a week and on weekends to go play the tuba and he’d be solo with the kids to do everything by himself he probably wouldn’t like it much either.For some it's a big problem, I've known lots of guys who get stung by the 'It's me or the band' scenario or completely pussywhipped as it's otherwise known.
You answered your own question but yeah it definitely happens. I've seen a situation where it happened to one of my besties before kids came along and he was the passive doormat type. Think we were all of 21, 3 kids later and doing job she kind of pushed him into he realised he should have grown a pair back then. Since the divorce I've never seen him happier and he's a great dad.Does this really happen? The only time I’ve ever heard of this was if kids were involved, which is kind of understandable that you wouldn’t have as much time for a hobby/freelance job with crappy hours and crappy pay anymore. I think if the situation were reversed and a mom tried to tell her husband she had to leave for hours multiple times a week and on weekends to go play the tuba and he’d be solo with the kids to do everything by himself he probably wouldn’t like it much either.
But someone who’s just in a relationship or married with no kids? That would be totally psycho to stop the person you love from doing something they enjoy. I guess people do get into crappy relationships, but you make it sound like this is a common thing.
They'll obviously want to hear about the first 10 mill you made in the music business.Once they realizes you're wealthy enough for this ridiculously expensive hobby/passion/profession then they probably won't balk!
I know of at least one great guitarist where he knowingly allowed to have his wings clipped. It's too bad, some people are insecure to the point of detriment. Talking about his wife.Does this really happen? The only time I’ve ever heard of this was if kids were involved, which is kind of understandable that you wouldn’t have as much time for a hobby/freelance job with crappy hours and crappy pay anymore. I think if the situation were reversed and a mom tried to tell her husband she had to leave for hours multiple times a week and on weekends to go play the tuba and he’d be solo with the kids to do everything by himself he probably wouldn’t like it much either.
But someone who’s just in a relationship or married with no kids? That would be totally psycho to stop the person you love from doing something they enjoy. I guess people do get into crappy relationships, but you make it sound like this is a common thing.
Yeah, she might be exaggerating and she's realy just a piccolo player.You definitely want to 'see her tuba' by the 3rd date.