Thank you all for you feedback. I guess maybe my remaining bandmates were on the right track. It is very frustrating when people change their minds and feelings about something that effects others so rapidly, and without any real reasoning or discussions about it. But as you all say, it is what it is, and there's no reason we shouldn't keep progessing, after all, we do have 6 years under our belts and a name that we can use to our advantage. Sometimes it just helps to have different persepectives from other sources that are not involved with the situation So now in we are in search of that new "addition!" Again, thank you for your feedbacks and words of encouragement!