LOL!Here's a mad idea.
Tell your guitarists to turn the f*ck down. Give your bassist a colouring in book or keep him distracted with a laser pointer whilst you turn his amp down for him.
You'll hear your ride cymbal then and you won't have to spend any money.
None of the guitarists I gig with use anything above 30 watt and they keep up with me unmiced very easily. Need more oomph live get an SM57 and go through a PA and don't deafen everyone else in the band.LOL!
One of the things that drives me nuts about guitar players is their volume. I swear if guitar players would take an additional $30 and buy an amp stand and lean their amps back toward their heads, we would NEVER have this problem. If they would do this, 100% of them would cut down.
Foghorn Megaphone, I'm stealing that!For me, it has always been bassists. I have difficulty hearing the guitar because Foghorn Megaphone won't get his sound under control.