So I live in NYC which means the only time I'm behind a drum kit is during band practice--not ideal. I have an old kit just sitting in my closet and I'm thinking of putting some mesh heads on it with some quiet cymbals for home practice. Seems there are two options for both (Remo/Evans and Zildjian/Sabian), anybody have experience with these and could suggest one over the other? The quieter the better--the point is to not piss off the neighbors. Thanks!