Easy dude, don't take it personal, I was referring to the OP saying things don't feel as locked in as he can't hear them. Your quote added to what I said.
Its all good.
You quoted my post and said "Luckily it's not a problem I have to deal with. You can lock into any size bass drum. Sounds like you have band members that can't keep time and/or don't listen to what each other is playing "
Couldn't tell you were writing to OP lol.
The rest of your post was on point with what I was saying. I fully agree the volume difference between a 20 and 22 is minimal and won't make anyone tighter. Although owning both, when playing solo the 22 has some low end that is very enjoyable. If anything the 20 will add some punch to make it easier to lock in with the band.