I am a guitar player. I have always loved the drums. With all the recent never going anywhere I found I had a fair amount of spare money! I already kind of made her mad when I bought a 76 key keyboard, so I didn't wanna do that again, so I bought a Pearl Roadshow 5 pc with a 22" kick. I am 55 (same as my IQ) Male, ALWAYS LOVED the hammering of Bonzo! I know that all drummers position their set to their own preference. All the pictures I've seen of this set show the two hole tom mount (which is 4 inches from one head and almost 8 from the other) set up with the throne on the 8 inch side. Trying to get "my" setup, like this, the snare is way further from the 10" tom, as is the floor tom from the 12". Ideally I would like a uniform distance between the drums. I was thinking that if I reversed the bass heads and placed the 4" side as closer to the throne I could better achieve this. Sound-wise, would this make a difference? Side note: I also bought the Drum Dial and that helped a lot! (never tuned a drum before). Side note 2: I also bought a 6. 8, 10 roto tom set and have NO CLUE how to tune those. Any help would be greatly appreciated. If I can get kinda good, maybe she can get kinda un-mad?