Today could be the day since I texted the leader with, “ok I’ll take it down, but we need to discuss this”.With all due respect, I can't believe you're letting it go on this long. While I'm not on your level Bo, I'm a decent drummer and there's no way I could play in this band. I'd kindly let them know I'm not their guy for a drummer.
His reply was, “sure, I’ll come earlier for the next gig and we’ll chat” which isn’t until January 3rd. I texted back, “nah, I’ll call you tomorrow. Let me know when you’re free for a phone call”