Work on your groove mate....first and foremost. Develop solid feel, solid timing and solid groove...,,this aspect of drumming is paramount. The rest (fast singles et al), is just filler....and next to useless to you if you can't groove. Grab a click, or play along to some music and work on your time keeping and delivering a solid foundation for the rest of the band. Add the flash later, once the basic prinicples have been developed.
Most importantly, keep at it my friend!!