..I had to play a show this weekend where the group I was with was headlining. The drummer INSISTED I use his kit. I do my best to be easy-going and easy-to-get-along-with, so I agreed. I play on about 3-4 different drum sets a week, so it's no big deal to play on a set that's not mine. Long story short, the other drummer turned out to be a HUGE prick for a plethora of reasons. By the time it was our group's turn to play, I had just about had enough of this guy. When I played his kit, I freakin' murdered his heads on his toms. When I got finished, it was dimple-city..
A guy lets you use (or insists, not relevant) his drum set..
Then, as time passes, for whatever reason (also not relevant) you start to dislike this guy a lot and to express those feelings you smash his drumheads into garbage..
Not very mature in my opinion and i can assure you that, if those would have been my drumheads, you would have paid for them..
Whether you would have liked me or not..