I played another short guy's kit about a year and a half ago at a concert where we shared a drum set. I offered my drum set, but he INSISTED we play his. No problem. Once again, sky-high cymbals and rack tom, and super-low floor toms. Floor toms were suspended, angled (I like mine flat) and worst of all, on a Pearl rack that's not easily adjusted. I just dealt with it. I mean, I'm 6 feet tall which is not unusual. When I went to Forks in Nashville last year, every kit was set up perfect for me. Big kits, small kits, a variety of sizes. It didn't matter. People in there playing them didn't have any issues either. No one had to adjust anything. I have a good friend who plays who is probably like 5'8". I play his kits, and yes they are set up lower, but proportionally speaking, I would have to raise everything about 3" and it would be perfect.
Oh well. Once again, this is just an informal rant. Definitely 1st world problems here.