So for the last 3 months i have had my first acoustic drum kit and basically i am terrible at tuning. I bought the digital drum tuner but they all read the same. I play metal/grunge/rock but my drums ring out too much and the same with the snare drum i can hear the snare beads vibrating. I watched videos but i still dont get it. Many thnks in advance if anybody could help me.
1st up, if your digital tuner isn't registering differences in lug frequencies, you need to go back to basics with the tuner instructions. You're obviously doing something very wrong, or the tuner is malfunctioning.
Tuning aids aside, here's a basic "visual" way of tuning to the low sound you're likely chasing from your description:
a/ Loosen off all the screws on both heads until they're not even contacting the hoop.
b/ Press on the exact centre of the head with your finger or thumb.
c/ Screw down each screw until it just contacts the hoop / you feel the slightest resistance. Do this on opposite screw positions until all are barely touching the hoop.
d/ Still with your finger pressing the centre of the head, tension each screw as evenly as you can, using opposite positions, about 1/4 turn at a time, & watch what happens to the wrinkles in the head.
e/ Keep repeating this whilst keeping a strong pressure on the centre of the head. All the while you're shooting for keeping those wrinkles completely even around the circumference of the head - it should look like the spokes on a wheel. With good finger pressure, if the wrinkles disappear near to one or two screws, back them off until the wrinkles reappear, & are even in both depth & direction to the rest - then continue.
f/ On the batter head, keep a firm pressure on the centre of the head, & adjust evenly until the wrinkles are nearly gone.
g/ Now press really hard to encourage those wrinkles to show up, with your thumb if necessary, & continue until the wrinkles are just about still there, but absolutely even.
Repeat the same process for the resonant head, but finally adjust a stage further until all the wrinkles are gone. It's important that this is done gradually in stages, & critical that you started off with that even contact of screws around the hoop.
This will get you into a basic low tuning position. It's a method that's used when hearing the drum is impossible (like an emergency head change during a gig - just to get you by), & it's also a great head "seating" regime from which to move forward. It's much more difficult to do on coated heads. According to the finger / thumb pressure you applied, & the thickness of your heads, adjust up or down from that point to suit, in very small increments evenly across all screws.
This isn't just a starter method, it's the regime I use on every head change, & I've been doing this a long time.