guitarheel
Junior Member
Hello everyone!
I have a problem that I seek advice on. The band I am currently in consists of 5 members, including myself - all of which are long time friends of mine. With the exception of the bass player and myself, the rest of the band is very green on their respective instruments(drummer and rhythm guitarist). I have been playing guitar since age 5, and I have a natural ability in music which I was born with. I'm not a horn blower by any means, but in terms of this band, I have the most experience in "the scene", if you will. As a group, we have been playing together for almost a year, and our sound is not getting any tighter because of one element - our drummer.
He has the heart, and the equipment(he also owns the PA) but his ability is lacking severely simply because he won't practice. He also has what I have dubbed "Right-side synchronization syndrome" meaning he cannot separate his limbs, nor can he syncopate any rhythms. I have tried repeatedly to motivate him to practice but to no avail. I am a former music education student so I felt like I could help him with no problem, but no. No matter what I try, I can't get him to practice. Also, I feel apprehensive about confronting him in the manner that I WANT to(my patience have worn quite thin after a year with no results) because of our long-time friendship. I have even tried to hook him up with instructional videos on Youtube to help cure him of the "My right hand does whatever my right foot is doing" disease.
For lack of a better explanation, he can play the standard "straight four" with no problems, save some tempo issues. He has a great kit and knows how to care for it properly as far as I can see. But he won't practice because he thinks he's good enough to slide by on his current skill level. Bottom line is, this won't fly.
So my question is, what motivates a drummer to WANT to play? I feel like I have a pretty good grasp of how to teach someone to play, but when the powers of retention are non-existent, it can be very discouraging. Not to mention the fact that he knows nothing of rhythm or even subdivision.
Also, can anyone recommend any rudimentary DVDs or websites that can help my friend be a better drummer?
Thanks in advance
I have a problem that I seek advice on. The band I am currently in consists of 5 members, including myself - all of which are long time friends of mine. With the exception of the bass player and myself, the rest of the band is very green on their respective instruments(drummer and rhythm guitarist). I have been playing guitar since age 5, and I have a natural ability in music which I was born with. I'm not a horn blower by any means, but in terms of this band, I have the most experience in "the scene", if you will. As a group, we have been playing together for almost a year, and our sound is not getting any tighter because of one element - our drummer.
He has the heart, and the equipment(he also owns the PA) but his ability is lacking severely simply because he won't practice. He also has what I have dubbed "Right-side synchronization syndrome" meaning he cannot separate his limbs, nor can he syncopate any rhythms. I have tried repeatedly to motivate him to practice but to no avail. I am a former music education student so I felt like I could help him with no problem, but no. No matter what I try, I can't get him to practice. Also, I feel apprehensive about confronting him in the manner that I WANT to(my patience have worn quite thin after a year with no results) because of our long-time friendship. I have even tried to hook him up with instructional videos on Youtube to help cure him of the "My right hand does whatever my right foot is doing" disease.
For lack of a better explanation, he can play the standard "straight four" with no problems, save some tempo issues. He has a great kit and knows how to care for it properly as far as I can see. But he won't practice because he thinks he's good enough to slide by on his current skill level. Bottom line is, this won't fly.
So my question is, what motivates a drummer to WANT to play? I feel like I have a pretty good grasp of how to teach someone to play, but when the powers of retention are non-existent, it can be very discouraging. Not to mention the fact that he knows nothing of rhythm or even subdivision.
Also, can anyone recommend any rudimentary DVDs or websites that can help my friend be a better drummer?
Thanks in advance