So tonight I showed up at someones house that I answered an ad to. He seemed pleasant over text messaging and had similar musical interests. I pulled in the driveway and he came outside. He appeared highly intoxicated. He introduced himself and then his wife came outside. They immediately got into a verbal dispute that involved loud cursing and foul language. I had all my gear still packed up in my car and wanted to leave that very second. I knew right away that this was not the situation for me. Has anyone else had a situation like this where you knew it was a mismatch the second you arrived at a jam/ audition?