At the church where we go now, the drum set is a 90s Pearl Export. The room is much smaller than any church I have ever played at. At first I put Evans Hydraulic heads on top of the toms to keep the volume down. It was the wrong move big time. Now I use coated Evans G1's on both the top and bottom of the toms, which make it much easier to play more softly. Peace and goodwill.