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Last week I got a call out of the blue from a guitar player whose band is looking for a drummer. I don't know any of these guys, but was told that they got my number from a mutual friend, who owns a local music store, and runs a weekend warrior program. This group has been playing a blues, rockabilly, classic rock, heavy on the harmonies style of music for the past four years. Their original drummer retired and has moved to sunnier climes, so they are on the hunt for his replacement. They have had a few guys sit in, but have not been able to find a the right guy as of yet. The impression that I got was that this is my gig to lose. If I fit I am in. If not....
Tonight will be our first jam, which reminds me of my pre marital disaster of a love life. It has been a while since I have been on a blind date so to speak, and I have to admit that I am a little nervous. As I gaze through the blinders of the cart before the horse, first date optimism, the anticipation and all of the crazy paranoid thoughts, questions and emotions are bouncing around inside my melon like a handball in a handball court. My worries are not so much the music, it's more about the overall chemistry of the group, and how as the outsider I might fit into the mix.
I have had a few near misses with musicians, bands, jams that I did not post because of the spin and justification in having to explain why in some cases they have not worked out. Once again using the dating analogy it is like bragging about scoring a date with the reigning goddess then having the date become one of those public jokes when it goes embarrasingly of the tracks.I don't know how this one will work, but I wanted this thread to be my running comentary on the experience.
There have been a few band chemistry breakup animosity threads as of late, so my thoughts were that by starting this thread from the beginning, it may provide for an exchange of ideas and insights that may be of use to myself and others.
I am hoping for a long thread.
Barry
Last week I got a call out of the blue from a guitar player whose band is looking for a drummer. I don't know any of these guys, but was told that they got my number from a mutual friend, who owns a local music store, and runs a weekend warrior program. This group has been playing a blues, rockabilly, classic rock, heavy on the harmonies style of music for the past four years. Their original drummer retired and has moved to sunnier climes, so they are on the hunt for his replacement. They have had a few guys sit in, but have not been able to find a the right guy as of yet. The impression that I got was that this is my gig to lose. If I fit I am in. If not....
Tonight will be our first jam, which reminds me of my pre marital disaster of a love life. It has been a while since I have been on a blind date so to speak, and I have to admit that I am a little nervous. As I gaze through the blinders of the cart before the horse, first date optimism, the anticipation and all of the crazy paranoid thoughts, questions and emotions are bouncing around inside my melon like a handball in a handball court. My worries are not so much the music, it's more about the overall chemistry of the group, and how as the outsider I might fit into the mix.
I have had a few near misses with musicians, bands, jams that I did not post because of the spin and justification in having to explain why in some cases they have not worked out. Once again using the dating analogy it is like bragging about scoring a date with the reigning goddess then having the date become one of those public jokes when it goes embarrasingly of the tracks.I don't know how this one will work, but I wanted this thread to be my running comentary on the experience.
There have been a few band chemistry breakup animosity threads as of late, so my thoughts were that by starting this thread from the beginning, it may provide for an exchange of ideas and insights that may be of use to myself and others.
I am hoping for a long thread.
Barry