I use Extreme Isolation headphones. They're comfortable most of all and i can play along to music without having to crank the volume. I believe there are two different models, EX25 which i have and the EX29. I have the EX25.
Try vic firth isolation headphones they work great for me to play along with songs and hear my kick drums (triggered), as well as they block out 24db of drum noise, they actually make my kit sound pretty good imo.