rogue_drummer
Gold Member
Just curious here. How many of you ask questions of your bandmates when rehearsing a song? For example, if the band introduces a new song to learn, like an original, or a cover they are putting their own touches on, do you ask a lot of questions regarding tempo, time, meter, tembre, sound, how a particular part needs to be played, etc. I'm not referring to asking the same questions over and over, but asking specific questions on how to make the song as good as you can get it.
I ask this because I'm getting asked more and more to play in bands or to fill in for other drummers while they are on vacation, can't make gigs, etc. And the styles are many, from country to country rock to blues to jazz to rock to classic rock, to praise music, etc.
From what I am noticing, about 1/3 of the musicians I play with get annoyed and believe if I ask quesions it shows incompetence, inexperience, etc. The other 2/3s are grateful I asked and am willing to cooperate and collaborate on the song(s) and with them to help make a better product - the song.
Granted whenever I'm asked to sit in, I always try and do my homework and learn the song, but always there questions to ask and such.
Has anyone else run into this problem of being looked down upon for asking quesitons?
I ask this because I'm getting asked more and more to play in bands or to fill in for other drummers while they are on vacation, can't make gigs, etc. And the styles are many, from country to country rock to blues to jazz to rock to classic rock, to praise music, etc.
From what I am noticing, about 1/3 of the musicians I play with get annoyed and believe if I ask quesions it shows incompetence, inexperience, etc. The other 2/3s are grateful I asked and am willing to cooperate and collaborate on the song(s) and with them to help make a better product - the song.
Granted whenever I'm asked to sit in, I always try and do my homework and learn the song, but always there questions to ask and such.
Has anyone else run into this problem of being looked down upon for asking quesitons?