I'm having a problem with sympathetic snare buzz. Now, I'm fine with the usual amount of snare buzz that is triggered by the bass and toms. But when I hit my 12" tom, the snare reacts with a viciously noisy buzz. It's so loud that it overpowers the sound of the tom. I have spent hours trying to tune and re-tune the tom and snare, but when it gets to a point where the buzz is eliminated, I am not happy with the sound of either drum. I've tried tightening and loosening the snares, but again by the time the buzz is eliminated, the snares are either way too tight or way too loose. My current snare is 5x14. I was wondering if I swapped out the snare, say to a 6x13, if the size difference would eliminate the problem. Thoughts?