FrontierGibberish
Senior Member
Last week my wife shared with me bad details regarding a young couple we are friends with. They are in their mid 20's and we are in our 40's. The couple is married and has a home. Living with them is the husband's parents - temporarily but they have been there long enough to terrorize their daughter-in-law. I will not go into the details but what my wife described is borderline abuse at best and at worst a horrible case of the husband being his parent's kid before his wife's husband. On Monday the gal invited us to dinner with them to celebrate her birthday.Yesterday my wife told me about the invite and without really listening or thinking (MY FAULT) I said yes. Today upon review I decided I did not want to be around the guy and told my wife I would rather not go. Oh boy. My wife freaked out on me saying how rude I was to back out like this and how she will not ever tell me things about our friends again if this is how I am going to act. I admit being wrong for not listening when I agreed to go. I also agree that in some cases backing out of a date at the last minute IS rude. However this is not exactly a formal occasion where I am expected to make a speech or anything. This is freaking drinks and dinner somewhere where I can wear jeans and a tee shirt!
Ok the truth?
I want to stay home and rehearse our new song.
Am I wrong?
JM
Ok the truth?
I want to stay home and rehearse our new song.
Am I wrong?
JM