I had a similar problem, I'm 5'11, but play lots of double bass, so need free legs, and to cater to that I just bought a drumstool with a back to help my balance, but it came with a damaged height adjustment and the company were useless dealing with them so stuck with it.
Luckily I have an acoustic kit that is unassembled in the attic, which helped, but basically just got a snare stand from my old kit so the snare was independent from the rest. That's the cheapest adjustment I made.
I also bought a roland v-drum that's actually thick like an acoustic drum not a pad, but other than now being at the lowest limit of the snare stand that doesn't do much that the stand couldn't for the height.
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There's also no rules to say you *have* to cross your arms and have the hat on the left. You could put on the right or in the middle if you like - especially easy with an ekit. "open-handed"
this too. I had a remote hihat pedal from when I used to play with 2 hats, so I've done just that, and it's done wonders for my left hand actually, I've taken to often playing straight 8s like a left handed drummer say, or 16th disco-style beats left leading so the hats now on the right and few months of that my left hand has gotten way better, plus I enjoy the hat by the ride for right hand cymbal stuff anyway.