Keep on playing and like advice given to a bunch of young (and old) drummers...get yourself a metronome. You will find in very valuable to your playing in the future. Personally I would tighten my hats a bit more too. All that "sloshing" muddles up the sound in my opinion. I used to do the same thing and once I tightened them up, my sound improved greatly (as my band mates let me know).
The metronome with make your internal clock more accurate. It is messing you up because you still need to develope your sense of time.
Stick with it, get a metronome and DO NOT EVER GET RID OF THOSE VISTALIGHTS ;-)