I aspire to be a dive bar drummer. In fact, I just started jamming with a local guitar and bass player for fun. The primary goal is to have fun and hope to play occassional gigs at a couple local dive bars nearby. I've been playing for 45 years, off and on. When I was a teen we had a "basement" band that played the typical classic rock you would hear from that general era. In college I played in the school's jazz ensemble and studied snare drum to improve my technique. I also took some lessons from a local jazz drummer. I also played in the house band of a dinner theater in the downtown of the city (Buffalo, NY) as well as the house band of a school sponsored "variety show".
When I graduated my career aspirations took precedence and I didn't really play much until about 2004 when I joined a musicians networking group. They put musicians together with other musicians who had day jobs for the purpose of jamming and playing for fun. They would hold open jam sessions that were based upon skill level. From that I ended up in a female vocalist fronted R&B band and we did a bunch of showcases in Greenwich Village at The Bitter End and The Red Lion. Then in 2006 my job began to pick up as I was elevated to a more senior position. And that takes to me to last year when I finally decided to start playing again and began jamming with some people here in NJ for fun. Then Covid-19 hit.
I Besides the dinner theater gig and an occassional fill in gig here and there, I haven't made much money from drumming so it is very much a hobby. I consider myself intermediate. I have studied from some very good players and at different points of my life have put in some significant time learning and practicing. Add to that my preferred choice of music for listening is probably Fusion and Funk/R&B. So, Weather Report, Return to Forever, Tower of Power, Mahavishnu Orchestra, etc. And my main influence musically is Frank Zappa. So I have an ear for complexity and groove. I just haven't played consistently enough to rise to the level of being able to play the stuff I enjoy listening to most. I'm ok with that. No regrets. And life goes on. So now I have more time on my hands and am making use of that. I'll have to see what is in store for me from this point on.