Here's a mad idea.
Tell your guitarists to turn the f*ck down. Give your bassist a colouring in book or keep him distracted with a laser pointer whilst you turn his amp down for him.
You'll hear your ride cymbal then and you won't have to spend any money.
One of the things that drives me nuts about guitar players is their volume.
LOL!
One of the things that drives me nuts about guitar players is their volume. I swear if guitar players would take an additional $30 and buy an amp stand and lean their amps back toward their heads, we would NEVER have this problem. If they would do this, 100% of them would cut down.
For me, it has always been bassists. I have difficulty hearing the guitar because Foghorn Megaphone won't get his sound under control.
Ride cymbal is getting lost on songs when the loud songs played.