So - by that I assume you only play acoustic sets with no electric guitars, basses, keyboards or mics?
On this point; triggering samples or approximations is not the same thing as generating a sound through vibration of strings and pickups. Depending on the gear a string player uses,(how complicated/fancy) it is orders of magnitude less likely to screw up than the relatively complex e-kit setup... Especially if you involve computers beyond the module to get anything even approaching high quality, complex sound. As mentioned, the toms can be passable, but I just cannot handle the response, or sound of the e-cymbals on any of the platforms. Even the tiny microphone systems with the "quiet" holed cymbals. I'm not anti-electronic music, but you lose a lot with e-drums for performance in most styles of music. I feel the same about electric piano, but also feel they've come a bit farther on that in terms of playing feel... Some of the high end keyboards feel fantastic with the weighted keys and pressure systems. It's just the sounds... They don't replace grand pianos. Keyboards also don't mis-trigger, double trigger, sympathetically trigger or fail to trigger which are all problems I've had on e-kits.
On the thread as a whole: I'll also say in kind that there's a huge difference between coaxing/pulling great sound from a real kit and all the options that presents versus simply triggering a sound to play or "generate" based on approximate input data in steps.
My first two kits were e-kits, and I thought that was the way to go because at that point, it made me sound better than I was. I hadn't developed the touch and skill to make a real kit sing,(not to mention tuning as a youngster) so in my mind, the e-kit was an easy way to "cheat".
I still have my 3rd e-kit, a roland, but I don't plug it in 80% of the time. It's more useful to literally pretend I'm hearing the right sounds and response and use it as a glorified practice kit, the movements in the major muscle groups are still similar.
If you're not using them in some weird way to "replace" real drums... They're a great tool. They absolutely do give lots of novelty options like the monkey sounds, triggered samples, world music drum sounds and what not. You can approach them like a different instrument. It's especially nice to mix a few e-pads in with a real kit for new options also.