dazzlez
Senior Member
okey I disagree with a lot of people here.
Having a plan B to fall back on if Plan A doesn't succeed is clear recipe to failure.
Most successful persons have gone through these thoughts when they focus on a single plan A with a plan B that will come in after a few years if they don't succeed:
"I have nothing to live for if I don't succeed","My life is worthless, I have nothing to show after all those years I've put in", "I wanna kill myself","maybe I need to something else", "life is a misery" etc etc etc
I think this usually happens after around 5-8 year of giving it ALL nonstop and get pretty much nowhere! If you think in terms of plan A and plan B, this will the moment you give up your passion because it caused you so much misery that you rather choose a safer path in life.
That's when people suddenly apply for collage at age 27, stop their old passion in order to their suddenly new path in life.
A MUCH better way to do this, is working at one or a couple of side-skills that will help you pay the bills at the bills in the future and in the beginning of a struggling career at the same time as you work most of your time on the skill.
One example would be to learn how to do webdesign or web-develop on the side, starting as soon as possible. It could also be something more directly related to music, Sound-engineering or whatever...
Having a few skills that you constant develop and never give up through your entire life, will make it more balanced, satisfied and have more options open.
Having a plan B to fall back on if Plan A doesn't succeed is clear recipe to failure.
Most successful persons have gone through these thoughts when they focus on a single plan A with a plan B that will come in after a few years if they don't succeed:
"I have nothing to live for if I don't succeed","My life is worthless, I have nothing to show after all those years I've put in", "I wanna kill myself","maybe I need to something else", "life is a misery" etc etc etc
I think this usually happens after around 5-8 year of giving it ALL nonstop and get pretty much nowhere! If you think in terms of plan A and plan B, this will the moment you give up your passion because it caused you so much misery that you rather choose a safer path in life.
That's when people suddenly apply for collage at age 27, stop their old passion in order to their suddenly new path in life.
A MUCH better way to do this, is working at one or a couple of side-skills that will help you pay the bills at the bills in the future and in the beginning of a struggling career at the same time as you work most of your time on the skill.
One example would be to learn how to do webdesign or web-develop on the side, starting as soon as possible. It could also be something more directly related to music, Sound-engineering or whatever...
Having a few skills that you constant develop and never give up through your entire life, will make it more balanced, satisfied and have more options open.