In all seriousness, years ago while in the UTA drumline, we had several female drummers and percussionists in the drumline who were exceptional drummers and musicians. I never really thought about the whole gender boy/girl thing then, only how they well they played. And it was more of a friendly competition seeing who could beat who in a jam session. I can't think of a time where gender played any part of what we were doing.
Nowadays whenever I hear a drummer live, male or female, I always have to really look and listen to how they are playing and what they are playing to see what I can take away from the experience, whether it's a groove, their unique kit setup, etc. The learning never stops.