My honest input would be to learn how to tune your toms properly. use the timbre note and tune both heads as much as a minor 3rd note above the timbre. dude to be painfully honest, i think your snare needs help. i usually take the snares off to tune the bottom head, after that, take the tension down in ALL the lugs. (top and bottom) then twist the key on the bottom 5-half turns... 2 1/2 full turns clock wise. then do that working your way across then skip a lug and so on till you're done with the bottom head. then carefully check the pitch of each lug about 1-2" out from the rim and tune them as close as possible, never going down to tune, always tune up going clock wise... do the same for the top head then put the snares back on, set the tension that you like and it will sound much better... last week i tuned my buddies $100 snare and made it sound like it was a $400 snare... beautiful!