but to have this forum, with all it's caring members, why not make use of it to confront things inside ourselves that would largely go unspoken? I don't talk drums with anyone else except here. I don't hang with any drummers.
Me too! I've never hung out with drummers. I've been a bit friendly with a few but we never seemed to get to talk shop much. I've learnt more about drumming in my few months here as in the previous 34 years since I started on kit. It's inspiring.
If it ain't broke don't fix it. That which stops growing, dies. Two kinda contradicting statements. Again balance is the key. I shouldn't shun others, but at the same time I shouldn't idolize trying to be like any one person. So the middle ground is the destination. To have your own inique way of approaching the set, all the while learning from other's vision of rhythm.
I had a weird thing at practice tonight. There were four things different to last week when I sucked.
1. I set up my kick and snare in the flat (a flat is an apartment in US-speak). I stuffed the kick entirely full with towels so I could re-acquant myself with footwork without intruding on my neighbours
2. I lowered the beater in the pedal so it would have a shorter swing cos I've had issues trying to feather the kick more playing laid back music. Also loosened the spring.
3. I kind of channelled this blues drummer I saw last night because I loved his style. It was a laid back blues band, a bit louder than us but not much and I noticed he kept his hands really low. After all my years of rockin' I'm used to having a good old swing, and so in this band I've previously been working my muscles against each other to keep the volume down, and that made me tense. A really duh! obvious thing to work out at this stage but there ya go
4. I took your advice to detach and get get too caught up in the sound, instead sacrificing my search for a buzz so I can better give that buzz to others.
What a difference! That's what we do ... tweak tweak tweak and every now and then a penny or two drop and you get over a hump. You want to build your technique so you can, expand your range and be more free. I'm kinda going the other way, trying to work inwards to improve my inner clock, groove and dynamics, having accepted that there'll always be a squillion things I'd like to be able to do and can't. Not saying that's better, just noticing that we're working on opposite things at the moment. Once I get my stuff mmore together I might start looking to expand too. I also might not and keep going "in"
When my band members come in with a new song, and it's non danceable....I think what's the point? To get people to say Oooo Ahhh? That makes it more about the musicians than the audience. Which to me is backwards.
Not necessarily IMO. First it depends on the venue. If it's a dance joint, sure. If you play LOUD and not danceable, then you are forcing people to listen in which case you'd better be beautiful or profound or touching or interesting or exciting or
something a bit out of the box. Otherwise it's a bit of a wank.
If you are in more sit-down venue and playing soft enough to let people socialise then I see no probs with non-dancey numbers. I like sitting down and just enjoying a band with a good sound and vibe.
What about your slow blues numbers? It gives people's ears a break, adds variety, and gives a chance to offer beauty rather than boogie. Too much of a good thing and all that ... so yeah, why not mix it up and pace the set so when people have had a few drinks they can do their mating dances etc, especially at the end of the last set. A lot of us here would pace our sets like that - start with a bang, settle it down, and then build towards the big climax. In that sense your gigs become a bit like ...............
It's miles from dance music clubs with nonstop and deafening doof doof so, if you're not dancing, it's a bore unless you enjoy conversation that's mostly "WHAAAAAT??", "SORRY, I MISSED THAT!!" and "LET'S GO SOMEWHERE WHERE WE CAN TALK!!"