i had a talk with my teacher about this he thinks time has to be in your head and you shouldnt have to use something physical to keep time even in long pauses in the song such as tapping a limb. he thinks its a bad habbit but i think it can help immensely and my time is not good enough to handle without it at some parts
thoughts?
I think to give your teacher his credit I think he may just wish to ensure that you do not RELY on physical or audible count.
We have all seen the pros with the religious left foot on the hats splashing and trapping away, it adds continuity to fills and songs, but then that could be said to be part of the music.
Out loud counting: not a great habit a bit un-pro and I find distracts from a relaxed performance. Having said that I often will consciously count on big band charts and in the pit just to make sure that i get the stabs in spot on, as, sometimes i will relax too much and play what i THINK is meant to be on the page not what actually is.
Physical movment: when really laying down some tasty grooves, if you not moving your not playing it properly (to me), you've got to get right in to it to really lay it out. You can bob your whole body or bounce you left (hats) heal as I often do. BUT BUT BUT the movement should not rule the beat, it is a by-product of it.
In Jazz however, strict Jazz, the ideal is to have a band full of musicians who have a beautifully internalised swing and tempo. The continuous hi hat or ride is not necessary in the top jazz circles. The drummer is not the time keeper he is another instrument who can form part of the rhymth section.
It is here in hardcore Jazz and in classical where the tapping and counting is really not 'appropriate'.
As with everything there is never a simple answer. Therefore i would say one thing (if i had to say one thing): Do what ever you feel to produce the music that is the top priority but do not RELY on counting or tapping. Essentially it should be internal.