zambizzi
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My wife has always been hyper-supportive of my drumming obsession but now she's taking it to the next level. She's encouraging...no *pushing* for me to take the opportunity to go further and get some sort of formal training/education and really pursue this as a lifestyle.
She's on a kick lately, wanting to do all things that we've always talked about, while we're still young. Do I have the perfect wife?
About a month ago we were watching the MD 2006 Festival video and Dave DiCenso was doing his thing. I made a passing comment about how amazing it would be to go to a school like Berklee and learn from masters like that as a full-time student. She shot back with; "Well, we're young...let's do it!". Of course I thought it was a joke, but she's been repeating it since...I'm starting to think she's serious. We had the discussion again last night and she's almost refusing to take no for an answer with quips like; "We need to do what we want while we're young", "This would be a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity", "I want to see you do this and I support it 100%", and so on. I thought men were the ones who typically went through early mid-life crises?
We've talked about moving to the east coast several times over the years, since I have family all over the place back there. I grew up in western NY and would like to be closer to home. I've been eyeballing New Hampshire for a few years and well...it's close to Boston!
Now, I realize that it would cost every bit as much as a formal education in any other field but would most likely never return my investment. If I ever made a life decision that involved music, it would have nothing to do with money and everything to do with doing what I love the most. Those of you that have gotten to know me here know that I have the dedication and work ethic...nothing would discourage me, not even a grueling gamut of formal musical education.
Of course, we have two kids and a life here. I've got a great job with a stable company and life is generally good. My first impulse is to just go for it...uproot and start over. We've done it a few times and we're very resourceful people...it always works out. Then my conscious mind kicks in and begins to reason against it...for obvious reasons.
What the hell is a guy to do!?
She's on a kick lately, wanting to do all things that we've always talked about, while we're still young. Do I have the perfect wife?
About a month ago we were watching the MD 2006 Festival video and Dave DiCenso was doing his thing. I made a passing comment about how amazing it would be to go to a school like Berklee and learn from masters like that as a full-time student. She shot back with; "Well, we're young...let's do it!". Of course I thought it was a joke, but she's been repeating it since...I'm starting to think she's serious. We had the discussion again last night and she's almost refusing to take no for an answer with quips like; "We need to do what we want while we're young", "This would be a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity", "I want to see you do this and I support it 100%", and so on. I thought men were the ones who typically went through early mid-life crises?
We've talked about moving to the east coast several times over the years, since I have family all over the place back there. I grew up in western NY and would like to be closer to home. I've been eyeballing New Hampshire for a few years and well...it's close to Boston!
Now, I realize that it would cost every bit as much as a formal education in any other field but would most likely never return my investment. If I ever made a life decision that involved music, it would have nothing to do with money and everything to do with doing what I love the most. Those of you that have gotten to know me here know that I have the dedication and work ethic...nothing would discourage me, not even a grueling gamut of formal musical education.
Of course, we have two kids and a life here. I've got a great job with a stable company and life is generally good. My first impulse is to just go for it...uproot and start over. We've done it a few times and we're very resourceful people...it always works out. Then my conscious mind kicks in and begins to reason against it...for obvious reasons.
What the hell is a guy to do!?