Chunky,
it's 1.75 years now.
It doesn't take magic to know this - I just got some good tutorials (e.g. the JoJo Mayer one), kept my eyes and ears open and used my brain memory left to memorize what I've seen - and this will be my "knowledge", haha. But I'm noticing that all this technical stuff and things concerning grip are more and more stalling - I know enough of the theoretical things, now it's time to utilize it and progress further. So the tech talk will be repetitive in the future I guess.
I think it doesn't take many tutorials to get you really started with technique. JoJo's, I have both Todd Sucherman DVD sets (esp. the 1st one has a superb section on hands/sticking/hybrid rudiments - including slo-mo)... and a few more, and each is great in its own right.
I mean, people are bringing up technique related questions all the time. Isn't it easier to just get the "technique Bible" (JoJo's DVD) _first_, watch/learn from it, and _then_ ask questions if there are any which haven't been covered on that DVD? Now if you watch "some" YouTube clips which aren't going into depth, chances are that you will have some questions or issues understanding what is really going on technically. I've simply chosen a straight path - getting good DVDs to begin with. No time wasted. Many might not agree here, but I feel those DVDs are so great that I don't feel the need for a teacher.
Sorry for the above blah blah, but it might be perceived as an advice to just get the best tutorials out there as soon as you can, this will/should clear up a myriad of technique related questions IMO. And in the end - what is most important - it's an observe and imitate thing. This is paramount. Whatever it is - watch it closely and try to imitate it best you can (in the long process of learning it, you should listen to how your body "wants" to do the motions of course - some stuff might look different w/ your hands/feet than in a video).
Watching great tutorials = eliminates lots of questions.
A great deal of questions coming up on the forum simply stems from folks who _haven't_ bought/watched good tutorials.
So IMO it boils down to this -> Get the good stuff, you'll have way less questions and won't lose time figuring out the technical stuff.