Sorry to hear that, rmac86
I had a similar situation with my new place and neighbors where I did not want them to know I even had a drumstick or a single drum in the house.
I asked members of this nice forum to help me out in picking out an e-Drum kit, as I had an idea of brand and model. I had a budget as this would be an additional kit to the others. I had almost pulled the trigger purchasing what I thought would be the answer to not drawing attraction to me.
In the process of contemplation, I stumbled upon the Zildjian L80 low-volume cymbals combined with Remo Silentstroke drumheads. Certain online stores have bundles you can purchase to save a little more cash and you can also pick up single or individual cymbals to compliment your kit. I went for the bigger ride and an addition 10" slpash. I will be adding the China model Zildjian has to match the studio kit. Oh. I had to get a different bass drum head as Remo only offers up to a 24". I picked up a similar head like Remo by
Pintech (Reaction Series mesh head).
... and all this, with the same funds !
I did not want to deal with a new type system that I had to have cables and an amp of some sort. I really like the fact that I can play my full size kit and not have to deal with the e-Drum setup, which has a smaller feel when playing. With this new setup I have it all with my acoustic kit and really nothing has changed except for the volume. Not an issue anymore, and my neighbors non the wiser that I even have a 26" kit, and this kit could destroy worlds, but now, I just keep the mice from sleeping now.
Matter of fact, if one does not want to go the e-Drum route, and now that I have hands-on proof,
I HIGHLY recommend this application. :-D